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TELL ME THURSDAY: Guava Harvest

On Wednesday, I posted a photo of a cardboard box filled with guavas. So I'll bet you hookah folks are wondering what the heck I'm doing, right? After all, it's not a box of guava shisha and this is, after all, a hookah blog! Rest assured, I haven't lost my mind -- at least not today. As you'll soon see, there is a method to my madness.


The guavas in the box came from one of the two trees that grow in our yards. I actually cultivated these two trees from seeds -- yes, from seeds! Several years ago, a friend of ours who had just returned from Egypt, told us that she had brought a couple of guavas with her to eat on the plane and had forgotten about them during the trip. When we saw her, she had just eaten one and was ready to toss out the seeds. Ali, who happens to love guavas, asked for the seeds and told her how I had grown a couple of avocado trees from seeds. He was convinced that I could do the same thing with the guava seeds.


Not knowing how successful the venture would be, I planted the seeds into a couple of empty laundry detergent buckets and set them on the patio. I watered and checked on them regularly. It didn't take long before the seeds sprouted and full-fledged trees were in the making. When we bought our home, Ali carefully transplanted the saplings -- one in the front yard and one in the side yard. I continued to water and look after them, wondering if they would ever bear fruit. Not being a guava fan myself, I really hoped for Ali's sake that the trees would blossom. It took about eleven years of care and now, for the past five years, those trees have borne fruit!


When it's guava season, our house is the place on the block to be. Even though the front yard is not fenced in, our neighbors don't just help themselves to the fruit; they will knock on the door and ask permission to take some! Ali, of course, harvests them by the bags full to share with his Egyptian pals because, I suppose, to the guava experts of the world, Egyptian guavas are different than the type that can be found easily in Southern California.


The photo that I posted on Wednesday is a reminder that with care and attention, a small idea can blossom into an incredible harvest. Don't give up too easily on dreams; cultivate and care for them like I did for those guava seeds and you just might get an equally amazing result!










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John Stuart Mill and Hookah Bans

"The only freedom which deserves the name is that of pursuing our own good in our own way, so long as we do not attempt to deprive others of theirs, or impede their efforts to obtain it. Each is the proper guardian of his own health, whether bodily, or mental or spiritual. Mankind are greater gainers by suffering each other to live as seems good to themselves, than by compelling each to live as seems good to the rest." --John Stuart Mill, On Liberty

If I couldn't laugh about the irony of it, the latest smoking ban would have me crying. Virginia, a state whose economy depends on the manufacture of tobacco products (tobacco manufacturing is still the state's number one industry), has recently passed a sweeping anti-smoking law that will more than likely put several restaurant and bar owners out of business.


According to the Washington Post, this bi-partisan bill was "hatched in closed-door meetings between Gov. Timothy M. Kaine (D) and House Speaker William J. Howell (R-Safford)." Although the new law doesn't reach quite as far as some of the more virulent anti-smoking groups wanted, it does go far enough to target places where smoking has been an accepted part of business for generations. With all the secondhand smoke hype that the media has subjected us to, I can't help but wonder why anyone who is genuinely worried about secondhand smoke exposure would continue to work in establishments that permit smoking or, more importantly, why anyone who chooses not to work in an area where smoking is allowed is so concerned about those who do.

John Stuart Mill, in his essay, On Liberty, says it best: "The only purpose for which power can be rightfully exercised over any member of a civilized community, against his will, is to prevent harm to others. His own good, either physical or moral, is not sufficient warrant." In other words, don't try to stop me from smoking hookah in a shop made specifically for that purpose because you think that the secondhand smoke may cause harm to others. An alternative is available: if you don't want to be subjected to secondhand smoke, avoid places of business that permit smoking. Problem solved. Duh!


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It's Graduation Time!

May is a month filled with celebrations: Mother's Day, Cinco de Mayo, my birthday (ok, it's not technically a national holiday, but it is an important day nonetheless, LOL!), and Memorial Day. And while all of these days are cause for celebration, none of them holds a candle to the pomp and circumstance of the graduations that also take place in May.

For many of our customers, May means the end of living life by the quarter or semester. It means recognition of a remarkable accomplishment -- the completion of one more leg of the educational journey. Wednesday will be my last day of classes for the semester, with finals following next week. While my students are off enjoying the break, I will be frantically grading their last assignments and calculating final grades. Once it's finished and grades are turned in, I will enjoy a break until the Fall semester begins and finally have the time to catch up on things that are often neglected when grading has to be done. Yes, May is a very good month!

We'd like to offer our congratulations to the 2008 grads and to wish you success in your future endeavors. Enjoy your day, take pride in your accomplishment, and party like it's 1999 -- you've earned it!

It's Cyber Monday!

With Black Friday officially a resounding retail success, online merchants hope to share in the consumer spending spree today, Cyber Monday. Although it is really only the 12th busiest shopping day of the year according to Business Week, internet merchants have prepared an advertising blitz of a magnitude that boggles the mind. Just google "Cyber Monday" to see what I mean.

Shop.org, a member of the National Retail Federation, gave birth to the idea for Cyber Monday in 2005, a week and a half before Thanksgiving. Based on the notion that the fever pitch of Black Friday would extend to online shopping when employees returned to work the Monday after Thanksgiving, the marketing "genuises" who created Cyber Monday overlooked the fact that access to the internet is far more common in the American household than they considered. In fact,
a recent study indicates that 2/3 of American homes have internet access, thus buyers who want to continue their Black Friday shopping spree can easily do so from home on Friday night!

Despite the cutsie name and the media attention it has garnered, Cyber Monday is not as successful as anticipated. eCommerce analysts, after studying the web traffic of online merchants, report that the busiest online shopping days occur between December 5 and 15 in any given year. This statistic makes complete sense to me, as we've been selling online for 7 years and have always found that the last-minute shoppers come out in droves during this period. In 2005, the year when Cyber Monday was launched, a survey done by Shop.org revealed that online merchants reported December 12th as their busiest day of the year!

Although I don't plan to spend a lot of time looking for deals online this Cyber Monday, I will search for deals on a few things. Since I hate shopping to begin with, the idea of queuing up in a parking lot for a "door buster" deal is not at all appealing to me. Even though the prices are not as deeply slashed as those offered at 4 a.m. on Black Friday, I'd much rather scope out bargains from my far less crowded couch.

Summer and Soccer

I was never a summer or a sports nut until Ali introduced me to the FIFA World Cup many years ago. Now I anxiously wait for every fourth summer because I know it will bring the World Cup games. My addiction is so serious that not only will I not miss a game for anything, I will plan the whole day around the games schedule! My family is convinced that something rewires in my brain during the World Cup as it's the only time when screaming at the television, talking to the people on it, and jumping in frustration are the norm for me. During the last World Cup, I was visiting my aunt in Texas. The games began at 3 a.m. in Texas, and my aunt was absolutely convinced that I had lost my mind to wake up at that hour for a soccer match. I, on the other hand, could not imagine missing a single one even if it meant waking up in the middle of the night and biting a pillow to prevent myself from screaming at the television. I love soccer and adore the World Cup!

Soccer is the ideal sport for people who don't usually enjoy them. Whereas baseball and football games can drag on for hours, soccer players have exactly 90 minutes to collect points for their teams. Because they have to score points in a set period of time, the game is incredibly fast-paced which increases the excitement factor exponentially. There is no time for hotdogs during a soccer match! "Look, ma, no hands!" makes soccer a difficult game to play and a joy to watch. It's not easy to maintain control of a ball without using hands to hang onto it, and just imagine how much harder it is to score points with a foot, head, knee, or chest!

Soccer is a world sport like no other. While baseball and football, the great American pasttimes, are much beloved in the US, they hold very little interest elsewhere in the world. But go to Mexico, Korea, England, Argentina, France, Brazil, Germany, the Ukraine, Egypt, Greece, Portugal, Saudi Arabia, Panama, Australia, Ghana, Nigeria, or any other country on any continent, and you will find local soccer clubs and a national soccer team. Fans of the game know the best players in the world, and it doesn't matter which country they come from -- they are admired for their skill. Soccer stars such as Pele, Beckham, Zidane, Maradona and Ronaldo receive global adoration because they play the game so well not because they are nationals of a particular country.

There's still time to tune into soccer. The World Cup matches are not over yet; they are just getting ready to move into the quarter finals. Check out the FIFA World Cup page for game schedules and watch one! I promise you won't be sorry.

Hurricane Rita

Never in my wildest dreams could I have imagined that Hurricane Rita would touch our lives in California, but it has -- in a BIG way. Many of my family members live along the Gulf Coast in Texas and when news of Hurricane Rita's imminent arrival began to fill the airwaves, the reality of it all hit home. My youngest sister, Melody, and my Aunt Nola live in small towns in close proximity to Galveston, Texas. They were evacuated on 9-22. My aunt drove from Lake Jackson, where she and my uncle live, to Silsbee, where they own a second home. My sister, brother-in-law, and nephew, along with my brother-in-law's parents, left Vidor and joined my aunt and uncle in Silsbee. The following day, they learned that Rita was heading straight for them, so they packed up and headed for higher ground in Jasper, Texas. With gas in such short supply, they drove until they had only a quarter tank of gas left and stopped to ride out the storm. I can only imagine being stuck in a house filled with 22 people, 8 dogs, and 2 cats, no power, no air conditioner in 100 degrees miserably humid weather, and wondering if I had a home to return to.

Thankfully, they were all able to get rooms at a LaQuinta Inn in Lufkin on Sunday evening. Unfortunately, news of the damages their towns sustained began to filter in to them. Lake Jackson, where my aunt lives, is fine; her home is intact and received no damage. Silsbee, where my aunt's second home -- the one she and my uncle bought for retirement -- and where my brother-in-law works, was hit fairly hard. My aunt's home received some damage, but nothing structural. The building next door to the business where my brother-in-law works was completely destroyed, and he has not been able to reach his boss to find out if he still has a job or not. Vidor, where my sister and her family and in-laws live, was devastated. My sister's mobile home now has a large oak tree in the front portion, while the back portion is literally gone with the wind. Her in-laws' back porch, shed, and greenhouses are gone -- literally blown off their property to who knows where. Their house, however, is okay except for some missing roof tiles. They have been told that nobody will be allowed to return to Vidor for at least three weeks and that power will not likely be restored to the town for a month or more.

When things begin to settle down, we will be running some more hurricane relief auctions. This time, though, the money raised will go to those who suffered losses from Rita. There are dozens of small towns through which Rita cut her swath of fury, yet we are not hearing anything about them on the network news. These towns sustained damages far greater than those in larger cities such as Houston, Beaumont, or Galveston, and their people need help in a big way.


Hurricane Katrina Relief Auctions

Like just about every other person in America who is not directly impacted by the devastation wrought by Hurricane Katrina, Ali and I felt compelled to do something to help. Thanks to the Ebay GivingWorks program, we are now able to run auctions where a portion of the winning bid will go to a charity of our choice. A compassionate Ebayer from Latvia used the Buy-It-Now option and purchased an Egyptian tabla (drum), the first auction for charity that we ran. Please, check out our store for other items designated for Hurricane Katrina relief and if you find something you want, buy it so that, together, we can assist in providing some much needed supplies to those who had very little and lost everything.

I've been busy taking pictures of some of the new hookahs that we recently unpacked and shelved. Most of the listings are running on eBay already, but here are links to a few of the more unusual ones: